How to be socially attractive

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All of us want connection, it’s a primal human instinct to not want but crave intimacy and connection with one another, this is normal and isn’t a bad Thing. But because of how much times have changed since those primal caveman times with technology and individualism and the lone wolf concept being so popularized and encouraged, it’s not a surprise by any means when statistics say 85% of the world's population is affected by low self-esteem and confidence, now this doesn’t seem like a big deal but it truly is because when people lack confidence, they are alone and when people are alone, communities break and when that happens… well Tyranny begins. But luckily you got masculine Virtue to give you the framework and strategies that can help and aid you to become more socially attractive.

Firstly and most obviously, you need to present yourself in accordance with where your going socially, this is social attractiveness 101 but most people don’t get this. Most people dress the way they want to wherever they're going, but if you want to be socially attractive to not just yourself but to others, you need to present yourself in accordance everywhere you go. As well as that, being in shape also helps in this department for the main reason that it helps you look better with what your wearing and people will make assumptions about you based on how you look whether you like it or not.

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But the external factors about yourself are only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to social attractiveness because looking good will only get your foot in the door. But It’s your conversation that will keep you in there. The point is, having engaging conversations when in social interactions is key. I have a full social skills book that goes into a bulletproof framework on how to win every social conversation ~ https://masculinevirtue.gumroad.com/l/Achievingsocialmastery?

But the basics of winning social conversations go as follows..

• Make sure to have good eye contact,

• maintain a confident posture, and actively listen when others are speaking.

• Try to stay positive and uplift those around you.

• Additionally, focus on building meaningful connections with people by learning their stories and interests – it's important to demonstrate a genuine interest in others. Also, be mindful of your nonverbal cues such as facial expressions, gestures, and body language.

• avoid making jokes at someone else’s expense or making light of serious topics like religion or politics unless you know for sure that everyone in the group is comfortable with these topics being discussed.

These are just the basics but they’ll get you in the door. If you want a full framework, check out the social mastery E-book ~https://masculinevirtue.gumroad.com/l/Achievingsocialmastery?

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Side note: ~ Practice self care

practice self-care so you look and feel your best when socializing with others. Getting in shape will get your body in check but your face is a whole other wall to get over. With that in mind the best way to improve your face is with a skin care routine, coupled with things like facial excersizes And getting Getting enough sleep, these habits will help reduce stress levels which will put you in a better frame of mind for interacting with others and will improve your face witch will put yourself and others at ease when in conversation.

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And a final key point to close this off is to just spread fire vibes man. Go into the world, with the intention of spreading good vibes, because for one it will only help you and two, you don’t lose anything by doing it. Look the truth is most people are obsessed with themselves weather they’d like to admit it or not. I’ll be the first to say that I’m obsessed with myself, constantly critiquing my actions, thoughts and emotions so no shame here doc. But we can use this self obsession most people have to our advantage in a social context or in social situations for simpler terms. And you can use this to your advantage because if everyone is constantly thinking about themselves, if your that one guy that’s spreading good vibes by giving compliments, smiling, or saying good advice or jokes, you’ll stand out in as good way when you don’t make it about yourself and just spread good vibes.

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Like I said at the start of this. We have a primal need for connection so mastering these tenets for a better social life dosent cost much but will only make your life better in the long run. Having good relationships is one of the core tenets of a happy and fulfilling life so improving your social life and social attractiveness should be your focus in all aspects of the word.

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~ Masculine Virtue

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